How To Become “That Girl” in 2023

This post is all about how to become that girl in 2023 and live your best life possible

I’ve always wanted to be that girl, but soon enough I realized it is not a trend, but a lifestyle. It is about putting yourself first and making sure you are your number-one priority – at all times!!

There’s a lot of hot topic on how to become that girl in 2023 and that girl aesthetic for a better life. But to be honest, it’s not about working out, eating healthy or having it all figured out. It’s more of a feeling. Putting yourself first. Working on improving your life and eventually becoming independent and financially free. For me, that girl is about making sure I am fully equipped for what is about to come. Making sure I am putting my own mental health at the forefront and doing what I love. And that girl can be you tooooo. 😊

Have That Me Time Hour

To become that girl, it doesn’t mean you need to be waking up at 5 in the damn morning and drinking lemon water to start off your day. I mean I’m a night owl, but for work, I have to wake up early lol. It’s more of a feeling. Having that me time which can be done by carving out an hour or so from your day. Whether that’s in the morning, evening or even at night. For some people, me time can be working out, taking a walk, meditating or doing some yoga.

But for me, it’s more simplistic. For me, my me-time includes just shutting off. Using Canva and designing. Or writing for this blog. Whatever makes you feel happy and focus on yourself in that hour is classed as me time and having that girl routine in place is wonderful!

Have Regular Mental Health Check-Ins

Regular mental health check-ins are standard nowadays. I know it is for me anyway. I always check in with myself throughout the day and week. To make sure I am mentally okay. I don’t journal even though it is something I do want to do this year. But for my mental health check-in, I really just close my eyes and manifest my goals and have a vision of where I want to be. It has really helped me feel more secure in myself and made me want to work on my goals. I am more positive than ever before and I know you will be too.

Keep Thinking Positively About Everything

I know we all have a lot going on (I mean tell me about it). Work-life, pressure from family and then our own mental health. It kinda f’s us all up. But then again, I always believe that the minute we stop losing hope, that is when we stop living. I really try to be more positive to live that girl lifestyle (especially this year lol). I have been working on my goals and noticed that with the increase of positivity, I am sustaining my goals, working towards my dreams more easier than ever before!! Yay to me lol!!!

Whether you say some gratitude affirmations daily, or take time out to journal. Whatever it is, thinking positively about yourself, your life and your surroundings will do the world of good. Trust me on that!

Do What You Want To Do

I have learnt this a tad bit late, but at least I know now lol. I always did what others wanted. I always did what others expected from me. But now I do what I wanna do and it has turned my life around to be honest. If I am not feeling up to the mark, I don’t do anything and I don’t feel the regret that I used to. If I don’t feel productive, I don’t force myself to work. And when I am super into it, I work and work and feel better about it. I am doing what I want to do and that is what that girl life is all about. Making sure you are putting yourself first and foremost and above everyone else.

So, let’s all hop on that girl trend and start doing what we love and want. Instead of focusing all our energy on making ourselves perfect for others. Let’s make ourselves perfect for us 😊.

Find A That Girl Routine You Love

I love and swear by routines. I mean if you don’t have a routine, you need one ASAP!!!! I’ve been getting up at 5 in the morning every single day and am absolutely in love with it tbh. I thought I would hate it in the beginning but now, I don’t know how I was surviving before (I know a bit too dramatic right lol).

Since I have been waking up super duper early, I am more productive than ever before. I have been religiously working on this blog and it is finalllllly groooowing. So yay to me. And I also have been able to spend so much more time with my mum, because I get all my work done before 6. I have found the perfect that girl routine that suits me. Tailor your routine to how you want it to look. If you hate mornings, don’t force yourself to wake up early. Make your routine yours and watch how you transform yourself into that girl in no time! 😊

Get On The Self-Improvement Bandwagon ASAP

That girl lifestyle is all about self-improvement and self-development. I mean what is life without improving? I love to build up on my skillset and always am learning new and exciting things (I mean if WordPress is exciting to you then hell yeah)!!..

Self-improvement is the one thing that’ll change your life for good. Learn new skills. Develop a routine. Improve your finances. Make sure your home is the way you want it to look. Find a new job. That girl checklist is endless when it comes to self-improvement and self-development.

Pamper Yourself Religiously

I never used to do this as much as I am now! While everything that is said could be considered as giving yourself that girl self-care routine, you should have an entire day of self-care to yourself. For me, pampering isn’t about if my eyebrows are on fleek or if my nails are perfect (although that is welcomed wholeheartedly). It is more about me-time and making my internal well-being better than what it was before. The how to become that girl routine is when you pamper yourself with not only products but love too.

The number one key to becoming that girl is not to just use products and make sure you look amazing, but it is about feeling amazing.

Be Proud of Who You Are

This has taken a long long time for me to realize my worth. But finally, I am starting to get to the point where I am proud of myself – internally and externally. Not everything is about achieving things and reaching new heights. It’s more about the satisfaction you have from the inside and knowing what you’re worth. Making sure you love yourself the way you deserve so others can love you too. I absolutely love who I am becoming as a person and you should too. Love yourself enough. Don’t let anyone else define your worth. So, be proud of yourself all the damn time!!!! 😊

Dear Misfits

This is the best how to become that girl checklist you can ask for. For all the people out there who feel as if they’re never enough. You are. To become that girl make sure you feel the entire personality of yourself. Never doubt yourself for one moment. That girl isn’t about becoming someone else. It is about becoming who you are and knowing your personality and what you like. That girl isn’t just a moment or a vibe. It is about making sure you are being true to yourself. Not a trend it is more a lifestyle. So, starting today, let’s all become that girl!

Love you loads

Murrium

xoxo

This post was all about becoming that girl in 2023 and living that girl lifestyle!