7 Unforgettable Habits To Become The It Girl
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I love searching new trends, and finding ways to realistically adapt them into my life. But, this one trend, being the it girl, is taking over the internet. Now, it used to be that the it girl is all social media or celebrity energy.
That’s not the case now!
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There’s a new IT GIRL in town, and it’s not who you think. Today’s it girl isn’t about being picture perfect, airbrushed, tanned or a fashionista diva – it’s much more than that!
Today’s it girl is all about self-expression, confidence, celebrating your individuality, and owning who you are at whatever stage of life.
This type of shift is a breath of fresh air. I mean, we’ve all felt like we can’t attain such an “it girl status”, but things have changed and I’m grateful.
So how do you tap into your it girl energy and achieve that celebrity status that was once unattainable?
Read the post to find out!
What is the IT GIRL all about?
Let’s not think about the it girl being some kind of wonder woman than no one else can achieve. That notion is out of the window with the rise of the it girl 2.0. The it girl 2.0 is all about self-expression, confidence, infectious energy, and a whole lot of positivity.
An energy that draws people in!!
Think of it this way, the it girl isn’t defined by who she is, what she wears and where she goes. It’s more of a notion of throwing mismatched prints on, dressing extra, loving yourself so much where the “I love myself” is contagious.
The confidence of the it girl isn’t anything close to being arrogant, it’s more of self-acceptance and being comfortable in your own skin. Something more or less everyone doesn’t feel in some way or another.
The it girl knows her worth, embraces every inch of her flaws loudly, and is proud of herself and her achievements. She never (and I mean NEVER) downplays her achievements, and she always talks to herself with kindness and love.
The it girl is the one with that loud laugh, bold style, the one who lights up every room she walks in, who’s enthusiastic about the smallest of things, and the one who doesn’t shy away from inspiring others to be their most authentic self.
THE IT GIRL IS YOU!
Tapping into your inner it girl energy:
So, how do you become the it girl to mesmerize everyone (including yourself)? Here are some tips on how to become the it girl of your dreams!
1. Self-expression:
The modern it girl isn’t about nodding her head to the things she has an opinion on. She’s much more than that. She knows, that pleasing everyone doesn’t exist and she’ll be known for her opinionated self.
Her self-expressive nature is what defines her. It’s her personality and it can be yours too.
2. Her confidence is her superpower:
Now, confidence isn’t about thinking you’re perfect or one-of-a-kind. It’s more of the acceptance you give yourself and when you love yourself, your confidence also rises.
It’s about knowing you have flaws, that you lack in certain areas but still choosing to wake up everyday with a smile on your face and the acceptance of who you are.
How do you become the confident it girl?
- Practice self-compassion
- Laugh at yourself when needed
- Celebrate every single win (big or small)
- Fake it till you make it
- Love yourself and prioritise your mental wellbeing
3. The it girl style is what everyone can talk about (and NO, it’s not about the trends)
Developing a style takes time, (it’s why I’m always on Pinterest lol).
Now the it girl doesn’t specifically follow what everyone else is following. It’s not about the latest trends, or what type of workout other’s are doing. What’s the latest filter on Instagram and so on.
It’s more than that!
The it girl style is all about what empowers you, makes you feel confident, comfortable and stylish. Forget fad fashions, new on-trend workout routines and the latest designer bag.
The it girl style is all about being true to yourself, playing around with fashion and just having fun, Experiment, break rules, and the most important thing – HAVE TONS OF FUN!
4. Your energy is infectious, so own your voice
A lot of the times, we tend to mould ourselves according to the other person. We don’t be true enough to who we are and what we stand for (and this I have done a lot so I can speak from experience lol).
The it girl 2.0 isn’t afraid to speak her mind, convey her thoughts and let her perspective on things be known. In fact, the it girl boldly represents herself and what she stands for (and no one can change her mind)!!
To become that celebrity status girl, you have to own your voice, share your opinions, and speak up for what you believe in.
5. Positive energy to encourage others
The it girl lifts others up. We all know that self-talk is a big part in self-worth and being that good energy that surrounds others is important. And she knows exactly how to do it.
Complimenting others, celebrating a friends success, being kind to someone you don’t know and helping someone through a rough patch is what the it girl is all about.
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6. Keep on growing (professionally and personally)
Now to have the it girl energy, you’ve got to keep on growing – professionally and personally.
It’s always about learning new things and growing on your skillset. The it girl will learn on everything she possibly can and then speak her knowledge with confidence. She’ll be (or try to be) the most knowledgeable in the room.
To her, education and the power of learning is the key element to that infectious energy she craves.
To become the it girl, you have to be curious with everything around you. You’ve got to have the power of knowledge as your weapon.
To do this, travel, explore different cultures and religions, read non stop, and embrace the unknown.
The it girl is never afraid to ask questions so neither should you!
7. Develop resilience when life throws its curveballs
She bounces back after everything. She’ll be the one to keep on trying when everyone else gives up.
With every challenge she faces, she’ll take that as a lesson. The it girl learns from her mistakes and never repeats something that brings her no good.
To be that girl, you have got to keep on moving with a positive attitude.
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So, how do you cultivate your celebrity status tribe?
Now that you understand what it truly means to be the girl that knows her worth, herself, and her infectious energy. How do you bring it to life?
Remember, your energy is infectious and these are the ways to bring that to other people’s lives:
Find your people:
You have got to find your people, the one’s that love you for you. Your tribe will support your dreams, encourage you to do more in life and look beyond the materialistic stuff, but rather be there for you because of your personality.
Step outside of your comfort zone:
This one might actually be the toughest to do, but it’s well worth it!
Don’t be afraid to try something new should be everyone’s motto in life tbh.
Take those classes you have always wanted to take, learn a new skill, go to a different country and explore. Have a summer romance (wink wink).
Stepping outside of your comfort zone helps to develop new passions, you get to learn about life more and in return, have that celebrity status energy that is contagious!
Give back to the community and nurture relationships:
To get that socialite energy, try to give back to the community and nurture the relationships you make.
Helping other’s is a great way to feel good and to do something positive. Volunteer for a cause that is close to your heart, mentor someone, go to charity events, or simply, help someone in need.
Whatever you choose, always keep in mind that the it girl is someone that does good, helps people and thinks of others as much as possible.
Be that person that someone looks up to,
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